Ella Said:

hello i need some advice on my child's health?

We Answered:

Given his age, I would suspect what your son has is a case of pinworms. Especially if he seems to complain of the itch more at night. It could also cause more itch directly after a bowel movement as the tiny parasites are in the locale waiting to exit while he sleeps to lay eggs on the outside skin. He could also simply have itcy dry skin, from soap that is not being rinsed away well after a bath. There isn't a lot to ease the itch that is a good thing to use in that particular area, although they do make a cream for vaginal itching for women that you could try. Otherwise, I suggest checking between the cheeks at night while he's asleep to see if you can visualize the little worms. The doctor has a few other tests he can use to detect them as well. But that would be my first suspicion. It's not a big deal if he has them, it's easily treated with a course of tablets or even over the counter medications available. Kids just get them sometimes, especially the preschool set.

Tammy Said:

Moms I need advice on Health Insurance for my child! Adivce?

We Answered:

Unfortunately, you will likely pay less by going through your husband's employer. Health Insurance is not cheap, and women and children are viewed as expensive in the eyes of an insurance company anyways (healthy or not).
I've dealt with insurance companies from both sides, by looking into personally and from the employer's side. Generally the employer gets the better rate, as they are getting the "group discount" price. It does sound like the employer does not contribute much to the health insurance, which is sad. Many employers contribute more, but in this economy, employers may be cutting back their contribution.

It is worth looking into getting the insurance yourself, but I wouldn't be too surprised if it costs more than through the employer's plan.

Emma Said:

Parenting advice for child with mental health issues?

We Answered:

I think you are a wonderful person to be doing what you are doing. I have attached some websites on anorexia, depression, anxiety and Asperger's. This will help you more understand the girl a little better and pick up triggers of what she might be thinking. Second of allI would find out what this child is interested in by taking her to the library and possibly picking out books that she might be interested in(hobbies and crafts). Then maybe during your spare time with her you could assist her in developing a hobby or craft that she can eventually do independently. I have a nephew who is has untreated Asperger's at the time and have learned that you have to be very careful of what you may state in front of him due to the fact he has the habit of switching the words around. Continue to go to her appointments with her to show her that you really care and are concerned about her overall well-being and you might want to develop a list of rules and regulation and household chores so she knows what to complete each day without feeling lost.