Stephen Said:

I regret I didn’t have my kids earlier…..?

We Answered:

I think that your worrying too much. Health wise you don't need to worry about pregnancy until the age of 40. You are completely capable of having kids (assuming your healthy). Even then you can just go to a gyno or a regular doctor and get a check up to see how healthy you are. You don't HAVE to do in vitro! They can inseminate you with just pure sperm from a sperm donor. I recommend seeing a feritility doctor and your gyno to have a more in depth discussion of what your options are.

You don't need a man to be a parent either. There are lots of people out there who don't find "the one" until they are in their thirties! You don't need to worry so much!

Goodluck!

P.S: Don't do the one night stand either.

Walter Said:

Maternal extra danger awareness with a newborn. Is that normal?

We Answered:

I'm experiencing the same thing. I don't breastfeed, though. I thought I was the only one who felt this way. I'm even thinking of trading in my small Toyota for a gas hog Suburban. I probably won't but I cannot control other people's actions. Then I worry about daycare, even though we trust our sitter very much, you never know. However, I think if this type of thinking is consuming you, then you might want to talk with your provider. Or if you have an employee assistance program at your work or significant others work, then give them a call.