Clayton Said:

I am marrying a doctor who is in his first year of residency. Any advice or online support resources?

We Answered:

It's difficult, so hopefully you have your own support group of friends and family around! My husband was gone CONSTANTLY during his residency, and when he was home he was sleeping or studying. Kind of rough.

As far as online message boards, you might check ivillage.com. They have boards for anything and everything. You might benefit more from real, live people though. It's nice to get to gether with the girls every now and again when your hubby is gone. Also this may sound silly but we got a dog our first year of marriage and that was fun!

Good luck! (And also please don't listen to the people on here who don't know what they're talking about and say all doctor's marriages end in divorce!!!)

Ronald Said:

I asked this online doctor and i think he is full of crap i need some real advice?

We Answered:

you could possibly have an std, which could cause those symptoms. which is more likely if you or your partner have more than one partner. a local health department can check you. around my area they do it for free, so it wouldn't hurt to find out. but it sounds like you definitely need to be seen. good luck to you!