Jennie Said:

I want to enroll in college. Where do I start? Who do I talk to about my goals for my future career?

We Answered:

Talk to collegeboard.com they will take care of you. i promise.

Theresa Said:

My husband has no goals for a career, is this normal?

We Answered:

My husband and I were in the Military, and during the 1st year of Marriage, he made a comment to me that he thought he wanted to be an actor. (My whole life flashed before my eyes)!!! I thought "oh my goodness, I married a friggin loser"!!!

So I basically pacified him. I wasn't too concerned at the time, because I knew he had about another 3 year obligation to the military.

At the end of the 3 years I asked him again what he wanted to do.(I didn't like the answer)

Long story short, I wrote a list of reasons to stay in the military, and reason to get out, the list to stay in was longer (by design)well, he signed up for another 4 years. At the end of the 4 years he said he was thinking about going into law enforcement.....(good answer I thought)...so we got out of the military..and that's what he did.

We've been married for 15 years, and one thing I have learned, is that men can be lazy at times, and at times dreamers. You have to steer them in the right direction sometimes, without being boss (let them think it was their idea). Find out what your husband is good at, and suggest different career options in a non-threatening way...kind of in passing.

Good Luck!