Andrew Said:

what does it mean that you cant stand people happiness and grins because your lifes never been like that ?

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A wise man once said: Argue for your limitations long enough and they're all yours. Sounds like you've had a rough life; well, so did I and the one thing I learned was to stop living in the past. Treat each new day as an opportunity to grow, to start doing different things and doing everything differently. Deep within yourself - and nowhere else - are the keys to a happier, more fulfilling, and prosperous life. I know because that's where I am now. You are, as I am, a spiritual being in a human condition, and so every experience is a spiritual experience. The spirituality of which I speak has nothing to do with church or religion; it is simply the personality you display to the world. Nothing will change unless you change it; one action at a time, one thought at a time, one day at a time. The injuries and insults you suffered were physical and brought your spirit down. But unless you change your attitude and stop allowing the past to influence the present (and, so, the future) you will continue to experience the hurts over and over again. It's as if someone hit you over the head with a bat and you take the bat away from him and continue to hit yourself over the head with it. Does that make sense? Let go of the past; the best way to do that is to bring new experiences into your life: change your attitude, there is only one person you hate - you, and there's only one person who can change that - also you. If people seem to be rejecting you, itisn't you they are rejecting, but what you have to offer. Change your offering and watch the workl change.

Ross Said:

how can i stop myself from exploding with rage finally because of the complete injustice of my life?

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there is counselling for most of the things you are going through and have gone through , but you must take the appropriate steps , and get your physical health in order , you will not get the answers here for all of your issues and problems , just take each step as it happens or comes along , this is a frustrating and some times sad time of the year , as for your country , well if you lived in some other countries in this nasty old world you would be a lot worst off ,start by being thank full of what YOU do have and what YOU can do , that's all a start on the positive side , good luck and always look on the sunny side of life

Annie Said:

Can anyone give me advice on my rage feelings, tips on managing it?

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Life is never what you want, you make of it what you can. What you seek is not here but out there.

Sally Said:

Newly qualified Occupational therapist-Dubai?

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woe to any man who need a therapist...

Antonio Said:

do i face an impossible task to get my life together and achieve my goals?

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Hi there, O.K. you've got your physical goals set. They are healthy and realistic so on to the psychological goals. I too am bipolar with ptsd, tourettes and add. You have been through a lot, no doubt about that. When you set your goals for moving etc. You put them in order and kept them simple. That's the same thing you need to do with your life changes. True they'll take a little longer to achieve but it can be accomplished. Start with the easier ones to build up your confidence. I like the fact that you're trying to stay friendly with people when you go out, keep it up even if it seems to not be working. The feelings of anger you feel are perfectly normal I'm basically numb all the time so I wish I could feel anything, just don't let your negative feelings take over. I wish you could have individual counseling also but we'll have to do what you can with what you can find. Try the occupational therapy at the very worst it won't work but you can say you tried that route. Are there any groups for depression near you. If you can't find individual therapy group therapy is the next best thing. I'm from the U.S. and we have an organization called NAMI national association for mental illness. Check to see if you have something like that where you live. You mentioned an interest in moving start by checking into resources that you need and let that help you choose. At least temporarily. Stay strong and courageous and you will get through this I did. ;}

Grace Said:

will i survive this period of my life or is night night for me?

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ok i think u need to give urself a great big hug+pat on the back first...coz at least u have sorted urself out with goals! ur not completly lost, if u were, u wouldnt be thinking about anything in the future and would just want to curl up and die. but u have things u can work towards. so thats good to start with...
i think ucould try getting a job as the first one. dont try doing everything at once coz it wont happen. the reason u should get a job first, is coz
a) u wil be getting money with which u could eventually move abroad with and
b) u wil be entering into soceity and more likely to make friends+accquaintances.
the job doesnt have to be in ICT to start with, just something simple like in a supermarket or something, to ease you back into society and help u get a feel for work befor you jump in at the deep end. once youve established yourself in this job, then maybe you could start looking at what qualifictions you will need to do a IT related job, maybe you will need to go back to college for more studying...but dont worry that u think u will be too old, ur not that old, and nobodys too old. and it will give u a chance to meet more people.
i think even though its gunna be hard, and you might think you cant do it, i think u need to try not to let ur problems get in the way of making friendships. it would b so easy for u, everytime u meet someone, to say 'no i cant b their friend, ive got too many problems' dotn think like that or u wont get anywhere! i think that prehaps the people in ur community are not as nice to u as u woul dlike coz theyve got used to u being a 'loner'. if they see you out and about, with a job, they may start accepting you more.
so yeh, basically my advice would be to look for some sort of job, even if its not one you particulalry want (its at least giving you social contact) then start saving towards maybe moving away. but i would also say dont move until youre ready, u might just end up relying on a different government somewhere else otherwise!
oh and for dealing with things like rage, try writing everything down at the time, to get it out, or hitting your pillow...i found that works quite well!
good luck x

Russell Said:

Can I become a research assistant with a BSc(Hons) degree?

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Yes and No. You have to have done some research as part of your degree.

It's always a good idea to find out. There are many different types of jobs in research.