Dora Said:

Is there a gynaecologist on here who i can talk to?

We Answered:

Unfortunately you will find that doctors are like this, because they have to cover a wide range of subjects and they only have so long to deal with you specifically they can be very limited on what they can do, let alone what they are willing to do.

Doctors are largely ignorant about female anatomy, my own doctor was also unwilling to help with my reproductive health, in fact she openly abused me for my birth control choices – I used FAM, highly effective as birth control, helps take care of vaginal health and fantastic if trying to conceive because as well as telling you when to have sex to achieve pregnancy, aiding in sex selection, and telling you when you are pregnant before a pregnancy test can, it also tells you exactly why you cannot get pregnant by telling you where things are going wrong – my doctor had no idea what FAM was, thinking it was the same as the rhythm method and called me a 'silly little girl who was going to get herself pregnant' after which she point blank refused to treat me. Rant over, point is many doctors are ignorant but do not like to admit it.

I would highly recommend using Fertility Awareness Method yourself if trying for a child, unfortunately I am guessing that your doctor has not told you to do this already, when she really should have – get yourself the book 'Taking Charge of Your Fertility: The Definitive Guide to Natural Birth Control, Pregnancy Achievement and Reproductive Wealth' by Toni Weschler – I guarantee you that it will help you get pregnant.

Exercises will help you, but in the long run you would be better off looking for another doctor, don't expect miracles from doctors but do expect to find a doctor who will be more willing to give you the help you need.