Katrina Said:

Facial symmetry really bothers me?

We Answered:

HAHAHA i thought you were a girl when i was reading that.

umm like everyones saying, your actually pretty cute so shutup.

Thelma Said:

Has anybody seen a recent photo of the country singer, Kenny Rogers? Is that plastic surgery gone wrong???

We Answered:

It makes him look like a freak. I want the old Kenny Rogers back! I think his plastic surgeon got too excited to be working on such a wonderful artist & pulled the skin too tight & up too far. He had liposuction done in the 80s & said he regretted it since it redeposited itself in odd places. Since he now regrets this plastic surgery, why didn't he just invest in Botox or borrow his wife's Oil of Olay?! Let alone have learned a lesson the first time!

Mark Said:

Do you think that men's magazines and porn warp men's expectations of women?

We Answered:

I really think that it depends on the man. My boyfriend's father keeps a boatload of playboy magazines in their bathroom (needless to say, this man is divorced and still single), but my man (at 23) has no such unrealistic expectations of women. I think it also depends on the environment you grew up in. If the women in your young life (mother, sisters, aunts etc) didn't have a lot of self-respect and were constantly trying to achieve the almost-unattainable standards set by the media and the pornography industry, this is likely to have left you with the thought that this is normal, if not healthy. A lot of women think that if they don't have balloons for breasts and a 22 inch waist, they won't be able to get/keep a man. These same women do all sorts of awful, unhealthy things to themselves because of what they think men want, and they hate themselves when nothing is quite enough.
As for the porn issue: It sounds to me like it IS a serious issue. There's nothing wrong with looking at porn, but if the women you see in Playboy and Hustler are the only ones that meet your standards, it's an issue. You really should get rid of your porno collection. If you need porn, try sites like redtube.com . It's free, and has amateur porn. Most amateur porn doesn't have plastic women, and this might help you get your image of what women should be back to normal. If this isn't working, try abstaining from all porn for a while (I know it sucks, but when you're totally starved, you're more easily aroused). As for the strippers, I'm sure their lapdances are VERY erotic and their "presentation" is great. But don't forget, they're probably doing this to support a meth habit. Ooo. So sexy. I joke, but really... if you have to pay for it, is it REALLY sexy? Wouldn't you rather get a somewhat less professional lapdance from a girl because she likes you, and not for the money you're putting in her undies? If you find yourself straying, just remember that these strippers look at you like you're a walking wallet. As awful as this next bit sounds, strip down and look in the mirror. Do you think you could be one of the men in the porn you have? Are you jacked with an abnormally large penis (please don't actually answer that)? I'm going to *guess* that you're not. I'm also going to guess that you'd be hurt and outraged if women held you to those standards, and that feeling is something to bear in mind when you judge the physical appearance of the women you meet. Instead of thinking to yourself "her jugs aren't big enough" or "she has a little bit of a belly," try and find the more positive aspects, which every woman has. Toned legs, sexy voice, nice lips, beautiful eyes... if you focus more on these while getting to know her, those porno standards of yours might go out the window. Anyways, that was kinda long-winded, but I hope it helps!

By the way, this is probably the most intelligent question I've seen on this site. Ever.

Just an addition... Boston strippers? Dude, all you have to do is listen to them talk... that accent should immediately kill any arousal. Some of the pink tracksuit-wearing bottle blondes in Quincy Market make me want to stab myself in the ear....

Danielle Said:

[[PHOTO]] Do you think I'm weird?

We Answered:

First off, you're 19. You have a lot to learn about yourself, let alone women.
The only way you will ever learn about your self is to experience things!
- Get out there and enjoy life!
- Try new things!
- Make a concerted effort to overcome your fears and insecurities.
- Read everything you can about psychology and interpersonal dynamics.

Women are attracted to men that are funny, confident and self defined. The sooner you learn who you are & how to be the best "you" possible, the sooner you'll notice that not only women will be attracted to you but people of both sexes will want to be around you. It's called charisma, Baby! Work on it! It will be the best thing you ever did for yourself!

It also sounds like you could be suffering from Bi-polar Disorder. The sooner you get properly diagnosed, the sooner you can be treated. Left undiagnosed and untreated this condition gets increasingly worse with time.

Chin Up! You're a man now! Take control of your life! Take care of yourself!

Chester Said:

we were best friends but it's hard to forget what she did.. am i wrong?

We Answered:

id say dont worry about what the other kids say about ur nose job and just tell them the real reason u had to get a nose job and they will understand. and as for ur friend i suggest finding someone u can trust better and from now on dont tell her things u dont want other knowing.